Directions: When involved in a conflict which of the following techniques do you use; indicate whether you use it frequently, occaionally, or rarely, by placing a check mark in the appropriate column.

HOW DO YOU USUALLY HANDLE CONFLICT?

Directions: When you are involved in a conflict, which of the following techniques do you use?

Indicate whether you use it frequently, occaionally, or rarely, by placing a check mark in the appropriate column.

	Frequently	Occasionally	Rarely	Never
1. Avoid the person
2. Change the subject.
3. Try to understand the other person's point of view.
4. Give in, admit that you are wrong even if you do not believe you are.
5. Agrue to get your own way!.
6. Fight it out physically.
7. Try to narrow the conflict by identifying specific areas of agreement and disagreement.
8. Whine or complain, until you get your way.
9. Threaten the other person.
10. Ask for help in solving the conflict.
11. Pretend to agree
12. Try to reach a compromise

Frequently & Ocassionally totals for

questions: 1, 2, 4, 11

Frequently & Ocassionally totals for

questions: 5, 6, 8, 9

Frequently & Ocassionally totals for

questions: 3, 7, 10, 12