• Rainbow Hope
• Message Board For Survivors
• EMAIL address to join the email list Abuse-l
  in digest form, to join send this message in body: subscribe abuse-l yourname
  
• Saferoom Chat This would be where you sign up for Saferoom (monitored) chats with people who identify themselves as survivors. 
• There is also TWH (The Wounded Healer Journal) great site, good information and a javascript chat room - also monitored 24/7 The Wounded Healer Journal Links to guide you to TWHJ Chat - 
  • I have always heard and had good experience with this chat forum and would have no problem encouraging the use of both or either.
• There are other sites where those one trusts can meet to chat Live Universe allows one to set up private chatrooms which only the invited ones can enter by knowing the URL. As with Delphi and many other sites if you do a search engine using "Survivor Chat" as the keywords. AIM, ICQ, Mirc and any other online method are good. *WARNING* Take your time to get to know people. Some people may not be what they appear. Stick with monitored chats for a time.

• Mining Co. Guide to: Abuse/Incest Support

• Transformations...a forum for self-help and recovery
  (scheduled chats, message boards, survivor art and poetry, etc.)

• Subscribe to Abuse/Incest Support Newsletter at About.com.

• Conversations with Oprah: Andrew Vachss
  very difficult to read but many excellent points)

• The Healing Pool (part of the above site but important enough to stand alone)

• Self Help and Psychology Magazine
  articles, surveys, essays, QnA's, and more!
• New Hope Healing Institute
  provides support, information, and newsletters for survivors
• Survivor's Voice
  a voter action newsletter for survivors and supporters

Resources For Partners and Allies

• Parents and Loved Ones of Abuse and Rape Survivors
  books, ways to help, what survivors want you to know, and much more
• Secondary Survivors advice for partners of rape and abuse
• When a Friend Becomes a Victim advice and information for friends of rape or abuse survivors
• Abuse Recovery & Support for Survivors & Friends of Sexual Abuse support for survivors of sexual abuse and their partners, parents, & others
• Verbuendete "verbuendete" is the German word for allies, research about allies/partners