- There were approximately 4,890 rapes of males age 12 and over in
the United States in 1994. The rate for rapes of males was .8 per 1,000 persons age 12 or
older. (Bureau of Justice Statistics, 1997).
- In 1985, the U.S. Department of Justice, Bureau of Justice
Statistics reported in The Crime of Rape that there were 123,000 male rapes over a
ten-year period. (Bureau of Justice Statistics, 1985).
Overview
Society is becoming increasingly aware of male rape.
However, experts believe that current male rape statistics vastly under-represent the
actual number of males age 12 and over who are raped each year. Rape crisis counselors
estimate that while only one in 50 raped women report the crime to the police, the rates
of under-reporting among men are even higher (Brochman, 1991). Until the mid-1980s, most
literature discussed this violent crime in the context of women only. The lack of tracking
of sexual crimes against men and the lack of research about the effects of male rape are
indicative of the attitude held by society at large -- that while male rape occurs, it is
not an acceptable topic for discussion.
Historically, the rape of males was more widely recognized in ancient times. Several of
the legends in Greek mythology involved abductions and sexual assaults of males by other
males or gods. The rape of a defeated male enemy was considered the special right of the
victorious soldier in some societies and was a signal of the totality of the defeat. There
was a widespread belief that a male who was sexually penetrated, even if it was by forced
sexual assault, thus "lost his manhood," and could no longer be a warrior or
ruler. Gang rape of a male was considered an ultimate form of punishment and, as such, was
known to the Romans as punishment for adultery and the Persians and Iranians as punishment
for violation of the sanctity of the harem (Donaldson, 1990).
A. Nicholas Groth, a clinical psychologist and author of Men Who Rape: The Psychology
of the Offender, says all sexual assault is an act of aggression, regardless of the
gender or age of the victim or the assailant. Neither sexual desire nor sexual deprivation
is the primary motivating force behind sexual assault. It is not about sexual
gratification, but rather a sexual aggressor using somebody else as a means of expressing
their own power and control.
Much has been written about the psychological trauma associated
with the rape of female victims. While less research has been conducted about male rape
victims, case research suggests that males also commonly experience many of the reactions
that females experience. These reactions include: depression, anger, guilt, self-blame,
sexual dysfunctions, flashbacks, and suicidal feelings (Isley, 1991). Other problems
facing males include an increased sense of vulnerability, damaged self-image and emotional
distancing (Mezey & King, 1989). Male rape victims not only have to confront
unsympathetic attitudes if they choose to press charges, they also often hear unsupportive
statements from their friends, family and acquaintances (Brochman, 1991). People will tend
to fault the male victim instead of the rapist. Stephen Donaldson, president of Stop
Prisoner Rape (a national education and advocacy group), says that the suppression of
knowledge of male rape is so powerful and pervasive that criminals such as burglars and
robbers sometimes rape their male victims as a sideline solely to prevent them from going
to the police.
There are many reasons that male victims do not come forward and report being raped, but
perhaps the biggest reason for many males is the fear of being perceived as homosexual.
However, male sexual assault has nothing to do with the sexual orientation of the attacker
or the victim, just as a sexual assault does not make the victim survivor gay, bisexual or
heterosexual. It is a violent crime that affects heterosexual men as much as gay men. The
phrase "homosexual rape," for instance, which is often used by uninformed
persons to designate male-male rape, camouflages the fact that the majority of the rapists
are not generally homosexual (Donaldson, 1990).
In a well-known study of offenders and victims conducted by Nicholas Groth and Ann
Burgess, one-half of the offender population described their consenting sexual encounters
to be with women only, while 38 percent had consenting sexual encounters with men and
women. Additionally, one-half of the victim population was strictly heterosexual. Among
the offenders studied, the gender of the victim did not appear to be of specific
significance to half of the offenders. Instead, they appeared to be relatively
indiscriminate with regard to their choice of a victim -- that is, their victims included
both males and females, as well as both adults and children (Groth & Burgess, 1980).
The choice of a victim seemed to be more a matter of accessibility than of sexual
orientation, gender or age.
Many people believe that the majority of male rape occurs in prison; however, there is
existing research which shatters this myth. A study of incarcerated and non-incarcerated
male rape victims in Tennessee concluded that the similarities between these two groups
would suggest that the sexual assault of men may not be due to conditions unique to a
prison and that all men are potential victims (Lipscomb et al., 1992).
Research indicates that the most common sites for male rape involving post-puberty victims
are outdoors in remote areas and in automobiles (the latter usually involving
hitchhikers). Boys in their early and mid-teens are more likely to be victimized than
older males (studies indicate a median victim age of 17). The form of assault usually
involves penetration of the victim anally and/or orally, rather than stimulation of the
victim's penis. Gang rape is more common in cases involving male victims than those
involving female victims. Also, multiple sexual acts are more likely to be demanded,
weapons are more likely to be displayed and used, and physical injury is more likely to
occur, with the injuries that do occur being more serious than with injured female rape
victims (Porter, 1986).
Definition
Sexual assault and rape include any unwanted sexual
acts. The assailant can be a stranger, an acquaintance, a family member, or someone the
victim knows well and trusts. Rape and sexual assault are crimes of violence and are used
to exert power and control over another person. The legal definitions of rape and sexual
assault can vary from state to state (National Center for Victims of Crime, INFOLINK,
No. 70. However, usually a sexual assault occurs when a someone touches any part of
another person's body in a sexual way, even through their clothes, without that person's
consent. Rape of males is any kind of sexual assault that involves forced penetration of
the anus or mouth by a penis, finger or any other object. Both rape and sexual assault
includes situations when the victim cannot say "no" because he is disabled,
unconscious, drunk or high.
In some states, the word "rape" is used only to define a forced act of vaginal
sexual intercourse, and an act of forced anal intercourse is termed "sodomy." In
some states, the crime of sodomy also includes any oral sexual act. There are some states
that now use gender-neutral terms to define acts of forced anal, vaginal or oral
intercourse. Also, some states no longer use the terms "rape" and
"sodomy," rather all sex crimes are described as sexual assaults or criminal
sexual conduct of various degrees depending on the use and amount of force or coercion on
the part of the assailant (National Center for Victims of Crime, INFOLINK,
No. 70).
Victims' Response
It is not uncommon for a male rape victim to blame himself for
the rape, believing that he in some way gave permission to the rapist (Brochman, 1991).
Male rape victims suffer a similar fear that female rape victims face -- that people will
believe the myth that they may have enjoyed being raped. Some men may believe they were
not raped or that they gave consent because they became sexually aroused, had an erection,
or ejaculated during the sexual assault. These are normal, involuntary physiological
reactions. It does not mean that the victim wanted to be raped or sexually assaulted, or
that the survivor enjoyed the traumatic experience. Sexual arousal does not necessarily
mean there was consent.
According to Groth, some assailants may try to get their victim to ejaculate because for
the rapist, it symbolizes their complete sexual control over their victim's body. Since
ejaculation is not always within conscious control but rather an involuntary physiological
reaction, rapists frequently succeed at getting their male victims to ejaculate. As Groth
and Burgess have found in their research, this aspect of the attack is extremely stressful
and confusing to the victim. In misidentifying ejaculation with orgasm, the victim may be
bewildered by his physiological response during the sexual assault and, therefore, may be
discouraged from reporting the assault for fear his sexuality may become suspect (Groth
& Burgess, 1980).
Another major concern facing male rape victims is society's belief that men should be able
to protect themselves and, therefore, it is somehow their fault that they were raped. The
experience of a rape may affect gay and heterosexual men differently. Most rape counselors
point out that gay men have difficulties in their sexual and emotional relationships with
other men and think that the assault occurred because they are gay, whereas straight men
often begin to question their sexual identity and are more disturbed by the sexual aspect
of the assault than the violence involved (Brochman, 1991).
Male Rape as an Act of Anti-Gay Violence
Unfortunately, incidents of anti-gay violence also include
forcible rape, either oral or anal. Attackers frequently use verbal harassment and
name-calling during such a sexual assault. Given the context of coercion, however, such
technically homosexual acts seem to imply no homosexuality on the part of the offenders.
The victim serves, both physically and symbolically, as a "vehicle for the sexual
status needs of the offenders in the course of recreational violence" (Harry, 1992,
p.115).
If You Are a Victim
Rape and sexual assault include any unwanted sexual
acts. Even if you agree to have sex with someone, you have the right to say "no"
at any time, and to say "no" to any sexual acts. If you are
sexually assaulted or raped, it is never your fault -- you are not
responsible for the actions of others.
Richie J. McMullen, author of Male Rape: Breaking the Silence on the Last Taboo,
encourages seeking immediate medical attention whether or not the incident is reported to
police. Even if you do not seem injured, it is important to get medical attention.
Sometimes injuries that seem minor at first can get worse. Survivors can sometimes
contract a sexually transmitted disease during the sexual assault, but not suffer
immediate symptoms. Even if the symptoms of that disease take weeks or months to appear,
it might be easily treated with an early diagnosis. (If you are concerned about HIV
exposure, it is important to talk to a counselor about the possibility of exposure and the
need for testing. For more information about HIV transmission and testing, contact the
Centers for Disease Control National HIV/AIDS Hotline. Check the contact list at the end
of this bulletin for the phone number and address information.)
Medical considerations making immediate medical attention imperative include:
- Rectal and anal tearing and abrasions which may require attention
and put the you at risk for bacterial infections;
- Potential HIV exposure; and
- Exposure to other sexually transmitted diseases.
If the you plan to report the rape to the police, an immediate
medical examination is necessary to collect potential evidence for the investigation and
prosecution.
Some of the physical reactions a survivor may experience in response to the trauma of a
sexual assault or rape include:
- Loss of appetite;
- Nausea and/or stomachaches;
- Headaches;
- Loss of memory and/or concentration; and/or
- Changes in sleep patterns.
Some of the psychological and emotional reactions a
sexual assault survivor may experience include:
- Denial and/or guilt;
- Shame or humiliation;
- Fear and a feeling of loss of control;
- Loss of self-respect;
- Flashbacks to the attack;
- Anger and anxiety;
- Retaliation fantasies (sometimes shocking the survivor with their
graphic violence);
- Nervous or compulsive behavior;
- Depression and mood swings;
- Withdrawal from relationships;
- Changes in sexual activity.
Survivors of rape, and often of attempted rape, usually manifest
some elements of what has come to be called Rape-Related Posttraumatic Stress Disorder
(RR-PTSD), a form of Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) (National
Victim Center, INFOLINK). Apart from a small number of
therapists and counselors specializing in sexual assault cases, few psychotherapists are
familiar with the symptoms and treatment of RR-PTSD. For this reason, a rape survivor is
usually well-advised to consult with a rape crisis center or someone knowledgeable in this
area rather than relying on general counseling resources. The same applies to those close
to a rape victim, such as a partner, spouse or parent; these persons become secondary
victims of the sexual assault and have special issues and concerns that they may need
assistance in dealing with effectively.
Local rape crisis centers offer male sexual assault victims direct services or referrals
for services, including: counseling, crisis services and support services. Victims may
contact their local rape crisis center, no matter how long it has been since the rape
occurred. Counselors on staff can either provide support, or help direct the victim to
trained professionals who can provide support. Most rape programs are staffed by women;
however, some programs have male and female counselors. If you prefer one or the other,
make that preference known when you initially contact the program. Whether or not they
have male staff on call, almost all rape crisis centers can make referrals to male
counselors sensitive to the needs of male sexual assault survivors. In addition, many
communities across the country have support groups for victims of anti-gay violence.
Counseling can help you cope with the physical and emotional reactions to the sexual
assault or rape, as well as provide you with necessary information about medical and
criminal justice system procedures. Seeking counseling is an important way to regain a
sense of control over your life after surviving a sexual assault. Contact your local rape
crisis program even if services are not expressly advertised for male rape survivors. The
number can be found in your local phone book listed under "Community Services
Numbers," "Emergency Assistance Numbers," "Survival Numbers" or
"Rape."
Sexual assault and rape are serious crimes. As a sexual assault survivor, you have the
right to report the crime to the police. This decision is one only you
can make. But because authorities are not always sensitive to male sexual assault victims,
it is important to have a friend or advocate go with you to report the crime for support
and assistance.
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