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November
13 , 2009 Baby #400! Our 400th baby was born last week! Enjoy the picture of all of the staff, Abigail and Tami (our 2 American midwives-in-training) and Baby Brandt and his family. |
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September
12, 2009 The week after that Girlie came to us in labor from the village of Pakak. (Pictured here with Marivic and I.) We hadn't seen her in over a month because she was always working in the fields when we went for outreach. When we checked her in at the clinic it became obvious that she was going to deliver twins! You can't imagine the excitement amongst all of us midwives! It was a slow day and we had an extra midwife helping out that day, so there were 4 of us attending Girlie. It was a good thing too, as the little boys needed some extra help getting out and getting breathing. Thanks to God again that both boys and mom recovered well - and quickly. Girlie actually wanted to leave and go home only a few hours after she delivered! We had to talk her into staying for at least 6 hours. Enjoy the pictures of the amazing But-but mothers and their babies! |
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Aug
1 , 2009 We have our new batch of local Midwifery students! This year will have the same 10 students for the whole semester. I am excited to have the chance to be such a big part of their training. I hope that we will be able to inspire some of them to stay in the Philippines and work as midwives, which are so desperately needed, rather than to go abroad - which most midwife graduates do. Since they started we have had 10 births, done over 100 prenatal check-ups at the clinic along with a labor and delivery health teaching, and have gone into two of the local barrios for outreach. Next week our two full-time American students will be arriving here in Tabuk to begin training with us. I am particularly excited to have some fellow ex-pats around! Keep checking the blog for pictures of Tami and Abigail. Along with the students, we have added another midwife to our numbers. Because of a few new generous supporters we have hired Anita Paut on a part time basis. She works three days a week with us, which I am sure is enough for her as she is a newlywed! Anita comes to us from one of my favorite villages, Pakak Thanks to everyone for your continued support that makes this all possible! |
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June
2 , 2009 Potao came from Bugnay in her last month of pregnancy to deliver with us at Abundant Grace of God. It was her and her husband's first baby. They are both 18 years old. After a mostly uneventful labor, the morning of Friday June 26 Potao delivered a beautiful baby boy. It became apparent immediately that he was not making a smooth transition to breathing. We did all that we could at the clinic, but within 30 or so minutes we decided the best thing would be to take him to the hospital where he could be cared for by a medical professional. We transported the baby into the care of the doctors at the local hospital and after a few hours of recovering, Potao was doing well enough to join him there. Later that afternoon a few of us went to check how he was doing. At first we couldn't find him. No one seemed to have a record for him. Finally I found him tucked away in a tiny room, with one small window, no electric fan or moving air and three broken incubators, labeled NICU. There sat Potao sweating profusely trying to comfort her baby who was doing worse than a few hours before. I went to the nurses station and informed them where the baby was in hopes this would ensure they would be checked on regularly. The next afternoon we got an urgent text from the baby's father that the baby was not doing well. When I got to the hospital I asked Potao what the doctor has said that day. The doctor had not seen the baby since he was admitted! Tears sprung into my eyes and I stormed up to the nurses station demanding to know why no doctor had seen the baby since he was admitted the morning before! They had no reply. Just then the doctor arrived (did she hear my tirade?) and swept passed me without a glance. She took the charts and began reviewing them with the nurses. Then she went and checked this poor precious boy for the first time in over 24 hours. She announced angrily that the baby would be doing much better had the mother not tried to nurse him the day before (maybe if she had been there to tell her not to! ). She then pronounced that she was sure that he was improving. Two hours later Potao's baby passed away. In Canada that baby would have had around the clock specialists fighting for his life. Here in Kalinga he passed away silently in his mother's arms with no one fighting for him. This is the injustice of the poor. |
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April
15 , 2009 Lovely Lacnog Ladies One
day last week we had not one, not two, but THREE ladies from Lacnog deliver
with us here at Abundant Grace. Lacnog is one of the four Butbut villages
that we visit monthly for prenatal and baby check-ups. For me it was especially
exciting because my three new Midwifery graduates each got to deliver
a baby and they all did an amazing job. Let me brag a little more about
my midwives: Upon graduation Evelyn Pullis received the "Clinical
Efficiency Award". This award recognizes her clinical skills as a
midwife. Her Clinical Instructor apparently told the awarding committee
"You should see her in action! She really knows what she is doing!".
My other full-time midwife, Marivic Ongat doesn't yet have the same amount
of experience in the birth room, however she is learning fast! I especially
appreciate her humility and her compassion towards the patients. Last,
but not the least, is Anita Paut. She is volunteering with us here this
month to get more clinical experience. We love having her here and wish
we had the money to hire her full-time as well. If anyone is interested,
it costs approximately $200/month to hire a full-time midwife including
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March
14, 2009 11 Babies in 14 Days! It is a record for us! Every mother has her own unique story and I want to share one of them with you. Martha's story is typical of the Kalinga tribal women and it embodies well the reason I am so passionate about our work here. Martha is a 35-year old mother of nine. She and her family live in one of the surrounding resettlement villages that we reach out to on a regular basis. At the beginning of her pregnancy we took her history and found out that she had delivered all her children at home alone. Her second to last child died shortly after birth and at her last delivery she almost died from a serious complication. We went regularly to her village and did prenatals for her and the other women who were expecting. In this village we are always warmly received for prenatal care and health teachings, but rarely asked to attend births. We were all so excited last week when Martha and her husband chose to deliver at our clinic! Her 10th baby is a beautiful boy named Jacob, who was delivered with gentleness and compassion by one of our visiting midwifery students from Davao. Here is a picture of Martha, baby Jacob and some of her other children at her home during our postpartum visit. |
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March
4, 2009 It is easier than ever to contribute to the Abundant Grace of God Maternity Centre. Just click on our PayPal logo and you can contribute using a safe and secure online connection! (Our account is gthemidwife@yahoo.com) Paypal is one of the
easiest and most trusted ways to send and receive money online. Just click
the paypal logo and you will be redirected to the website. You can sign
up for an account and use paypal to pay directly from your PayPal balance
or linked bank account, or charge it to your credit card. All you have
to do is choose my account name "gthemidwife@yahoo.com" and
at the press of a button the money will go directly to the clinic! Sorry,
no tax-deductible receipts available through paypal, however every penny
will go towards the work here in Kalinga. |
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Dec
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Nov
26, 2008 Achao, Emmaus, Belen
and I were waiting out in front of our house for the bus to take us to
Baguio. Our bags were all packed and we were ready for some Christmas
shopping. The bus pulled up and just as we were about to climb on, the
jeep from Bugnay stopped on the other side of the street. We looked up
on top of the jeep and whom did we see? Achao’s father! Emmaus’s
apo! To give you an idea of just how momentous this trip was, I have to
give a little bit of background. Achao’s family is involved in an
all too common clan conflict. There is some bad blood between his family
and another family and because of this it hasn't been safe for Achao’s
father to leave his village of Bugnay for over 2 years! In fact it still
isn't safe (he was accompanied by 5 tough looking Butbut “bodyguards”)
but he was missing Emmaus so much that he couldn’t sleep at night,
so he made the perilous journey to visit for a day. Needless to say, we
postponed out shopping trip to Baguio so that Emmaus could spend the next
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Oct
28, 2008 The other week we
went for our monthly outreach to the village of Loccong (Hwy Pakak for
those of you who know Tabuk). We bought snacks and juice on the way, as
we always do for our pregnant women on outreach. After we sat visiting
with the ladies for a while we began to do our devotion and health teaching
on family planning. Then we told them to have the snacks as we started
individual check-ups. “No, no,” we were told “we have
prepared a merienda for you!” Just then one of our patients, Elena,
brought out trays and trays of sticky rice and fresh brewed Kalinga coffee.
Wow! We were so blessed as we sat with the women eating the delicious
snack. After the check-ups we started packing up to go back to the clinic
and we were stopped again. “You can’t go yet because my husband
is making lunch for you,” said Julita, who had just delivered at
our clinic the week before. Leon had made us a feast of boiled pig and
rice! We were so blessed – and so full! |
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Oct
28, 2008 What a great few weeks
it has been. First, we have been overrun by visitors – in a good
way! Two women came from the village of Bugnay to have their babies with
us, one woman (my sister-in-law) came all the way from Bugnay for a prenatal,
and we had two midwifery students from Davao come to train with us. Second,
we have surpassed 150 births at the clinic. It seems we are delivering
around 4 – 5 babies a week now. It does tend to make for some tired
midwives, so we are really praying we will be able to hire another full-time
midwife soon. Here is a picture of breakfast with all of our visitors.
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Oct
14, 2008 I guess this blog post is a little late - I actually forgot about Thanksgiving what with all the Christmas music and decorations they already have going here in the Philippines! I do however have lots to be thankful for! We had our 147th and 148th birth last night and another labour here today. Wow, thank you God for bringing us these wonderful women to serve. We currently have a woman from the tribal village of Bugnay staying with us awaiting her birth. This is her 6th baby and all the others but one were born at home. Thank you God that she trusted us enough to come here! We have two midwifery students here from New Life Midwifery College in Davao (www.midwifeschool.org). They are here for just about 3 weeks and have already been a huge blessing. I mean, they brought Starbucks coffee with them - how great are they! :) Every day I am blessed by my wonderful little family. Emmaus is such a joy and Achao is the best partner! Thank you God for all your blessings. |
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Sept
24, 2008 Every Bed Full! This
last week has been BUSY! On Tuesday night every bed was full – including
the extra bed that Achao made last month. Two of our postpartum patients
even had to share a room. They didn’t seem to mind though as they
happily chatted, comparing birth stories. We have now had over 130 births.
The students from the local state college have been getting lots of experience
here and I have heard that we are the favourite place to go for practicum
training! That is such a compliment.Next month we will have two Canadian
midwife students visiting us from Newlife Midwifery school in Davao (www.midewifeschool.org).
They will be here for two weeks and we hope it will be a good time for
them as they see another aspect of midwifery care. I am very happy about
all the opportunities we have to help train other midwives. |
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July 12, 2008
Part of my
vision in having this clinic is to train and encourage local midwives.
As you might know, we have been sponsoring and training Midwifery student
Evelyn Pullis as she attends Kalinga Apayao State College. |
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July
10, 2008 Family Update For
those interested I thought I would give a family update. Emmaus is now
3 months old and weighs almost 17 pounds! Yes, he is a chubby little guy.
Everyone says that he gets that from me…hmm. Not sure that I am
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June
9, 2008 Miracle Baby Back Home Before anything, this picture is of Emmaus. Although he is a miracle to us, he isn’t the baby I am talking about in this blog entry. I just didn’t have my camera with me when we visited baby Mathew Lazaro, so instead the picture is of Emmaus in the village of Pakak. Now back to the miracle baby. He went home from the hospital a few days ago and is doing great. B-lyn and I visited he and Martha on Friday in their home in Pakak. We were overwhelmed with thankfulness to see little Mathew breastfeeding happily and doing well as we thought back to the day that we rushed to the hospital barely breathing. Thank you for your prayers for this little guy.
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May
20, 2008 It was early Tuesday morning when we received a strange text at the clinic from the village of Pakak. We were told to come because something was wrong with Martha. We got no more details and so because we knew that Martha was due to have her baby anytime Blyn, Achao and I packed up the birth bag and headed out to the village. When we arrived at Martha's house there was a group of old women standing outside looking morose. I had a bad feeling. We asked where Martha was and they pointed inside her hut. I looked inside and my heart dropped. There on the floor in a pool of blood of lay a little lifeless baby. Martha looked at us with resignation and sadness in her face. "Oh no." I said as I walked into her house, sure that the baby had been dead for some time. Just then, Blyn and I saw the baby move a little. We jumped into action and began resuscitating, me doing mouth-to-mouth and Blyn doing chest compressions. The baby started making some noises as it tried to breath. Achao brought the jeep around and we took off for the hospital 30 minutes away, me trying to continue mouth-to-mouth along the bumpy roads. By the time we arrived at the hospital the baby was making some definite efforts to breath on it's own. Right now the baby is doing much better and is breathing on his own in an incubator (the only one in the hospital). Please pray for his full recovery. God must have big plans for this little miracle.
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May
14, 2008 Our Arrival in Tabuk After
14 hours on the plane, Emmaus and I arrived finally arrived back in the
Philippines to the waiting
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May
4, 2008 Oklahoma Well, my time on this side of the world is almost at its end. I just spent the last week in Oklahoma visiting my mom and her husband. My good friend Crystal was also able to come and we spent many hours discussing Kalinga, the clinic, our patients and our ideas for all of the above. It was a great time and seemed an appropriate end to my time in North America. I leave this Tuesday for the long journey back to the Philippines. I am very excited to get back (especially to Achao!) but not excited about the long trip ahead of me. A 13 hour plane ride with a 6 week old baby seems a little daunting. I will let you know if I made it back in my right mind :) Here are some pictures of Oklahoma. My mom and I on the Bad Boy Buggie, and Crystal, Emmaus and I inside the log cabin. For more information on the Christian Retreat Center that my mom and her husband are running in OK, check out www.redriverranchretreat.com
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March
25 , 2008 Baby Boy! Emmaus Donald Macad
was born Monday March 24 at 5:55pm, weighing 7lbs 2oz. |
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6, 2008 It's a Sign! Well, here it is! Our clinic sign. We had been putting
it off until all of our clinic papers were complete. We are still awaiting
our final inspection but In this picture with me are ( L to R) Zenny our midwife, Emma our clinic worker, B-lyn our student midwife and Berly a patient from the mountains who is staying with us awaiting her delivery. Back to top
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January
29, 2008 The month of January is almost over. We have been busy stocking up on medical supplies, fixing up the birth room, getting a sign painted ... all the things we have been wanting to do for a while but couldn't afford. Thanks to all of you who donated to our clinic over Christmas. A BIG thank you goes especially to 'Samaritan's Purse' who have given us a grant to help our work here in Kalinga become more established. What blessing! For more on Samaritan's Purse and what they do check out their website at www.samaritanspurse.ca I know the picture next to this entry has nothing to do with all that I just talked about, but I had to put a picture of me and my Apo (grandfather). He came to visit us for a few days this week and is very excited about his first Canadian great-grandchild. Don't you just love him? |
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January
23, 2008 We have been home for over a week now, and we have been on the go! During our first few days we were invited to a church anniversary/child dedication celebration in Pakak (one of our regular outreach villages) It was so exciting to see so many of the babies that we delivered be dedicated to God. We ended up being godparents to 9 children! How can you say no to a request like that? This past week we attended a “mass wedding” for four couples (2 of whose babies we delivered). They have already been married ‘traditionally’ so this service was for their legal documents. We have also done two outreaches and had one delivery. Enjoy some pictures of us with seven of our godchildren. |
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January
3, 2008 (Note: Georgia and Achao flew back to the Philippines on Jan 8th.) |
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December
10, 2007 For those that have been praying for Achao and I to get home for Christmas... please keep praying! We have had our bags packed for two weeks now just waiting to hear the word that we have Achao's visa. It looks like this week will be the last chance as our tickets can't be rebooked again. Hopefully the next blog post will be a picture of us bundled up in warm clothes in Canada! |
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December
8, 2007 As the Christmas season nears, and songs of ‘good will towards man’ are beginning to play (they have been playing here in the Philippines for 3 months now!) I would like to take this opportunity to invite you to be a part of the work here in Kalinga. We have now delivered over 50 babies and we don’t even have a sign up yet. The word is getting around. We keep hearing that friends have told friends to go deliver at “Grace of God” clinic in Appas because they are very kind there. Wow, what a compliment! If being a part of this work is something you would like to do, please email me at gthemidwife@yahoo.com and I will send you the information you need. |
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November
9, 2007 Was That
A Chicken? |
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October
16, 2007 It's All Part of the Job When
you are a midwife there is a lot of teaching that goes along with the
job. One of the big problems here is the myth that the mom has no milk
when the baby is first born. Moms will often give their babies rice, water,
powdered milk etc., for the first few days until they feel they have milk.
The babies then miss out on the very important “first milk’
or colostrum that provides many vitamins and antibodies. |
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September
27, 2007 Well, my dad just headed off for the airport after spending two weeks in the Philippines. We had a good time together. He got to see some brand new babies (which, as you can tell by the photo, he loved),he got to travel to a remote village to meet my in-laws (crossing a suspension bridge which he did very bravely), and he got to spoil his favorite daughter and new son-in-law (just kidding about the favorite part sisters!) I have been enjoying the Canadian food that my dad brought with him and I think I even gained some weight! So strange to be excited about that! Although it was a great two weeks with my dad, it was a difficult one clinic-wise. We had a number of complicated labours and tough transports to the hospital so please pray for us that we won't lose heart. Thanks for keeping updated on us here in Tabuk!
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September
7, 2007 New Additions We
added on two more rooms to our clinic. Just in time too as today we have
two labours! This month of September is going to be our busiest one yet
with 15 moms set to deliver here. We also have an aspiring midwife from
Canada helping us for the month, which is perfect timing. Hillary Grams
arrived on Monday and will be here for the whole month learning about
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July
16, 2007 Yesterday, Sunday July 15, we had surprise twins at the clinic. Well, to be totally honest we had one of them at the clinic and the other was born at the hospital. But both babies (boy and girl) are healthy and doing great. I will post a picture of the cuties as soon as I can. |
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July
14, 2007 On July 13th our smallest baby yet was born at the clinic. The mom, who is from Bugnay (in the mountains) came to us a month ago because her blood pressure became very high. So, for the past month she and her husband have been staying with us at our house so that we could take care of her with the help of our doctor. Friday morning she finally went into labour and delivered a tiny baby girl - 1.8kg! (4lbs). Babies with moms who have high blood pressure tend to have small babies. She is really strong though and has been breastfeeding like a champ. We have nicknamed her "peanut". Please pray she gains weight quickly and stays healthy. |
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June
2 , 2007 PLEASE HELP!
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May
18, 2007 A few nights ago after we had just arrived home from a regular outreach, there was a knock at the door. A group of our neighbours had been waiting for us to get home so they could have prenatals. It was a surprise since, because we are still waiting for our license, we don’t have a sign up and haven’t advertised at all. Word has gotten around! One of the ladies, Lordy, was already a few days past her due date and was planning on delivering by herself at home until she heard about us. This morning at 6:30 am Lordy and her husband came to our clinic and delivered a beautiful baby boy less than an hour later. She bled quite a bit after the birth and would have hemorrhaged had we not been there to help her. A little while later a whole group of neighbours came by to congratulate Lordy and see the new baby. |
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May 15, 2007 If you remember, in one of my blog entries from October, I told you about little Hope Jubilee passing away. Well this past week was a wonderful one for her family. Hope’s mother Mary Jane is one of my favourite ladies from the village of Pakak and since December we had been doing her regular prenatals check-ups. During one of our visits I learned that another of her babies had died a few years back. He was their only boy and he died at one day old, before they had even had time to name him. I had been talking to Mary Jane and her husband about coming to the clinic to deliver and although she seemed open to the idea they wouldn’t say for sure. Well Sunday morning I got a text from someone on Pakak telling me to come because Mary Jane was in labour. I was so excited as we rushed off to pick her up. (Getting back to the clinic was a whole other story, as we got a flat tire half way home and had to wave down another vehicle to take us the rest of the way!)Thank God we did get back to the clinic in time and Mary Jane delivered a beautiful baby boy a few hours later. As she laid breastfeeding her new healthy baby, she told me that that morning her husband had not wanted her to come to the clinic. I asked why and she said that because they had no clothes or diapers for their baby he was ashamed. Mary Jane said she told him that she would come alone if she had to because she wanted to deliver at the clinic. Her husband, out of his love for his wife and family, put his shame aside and came too. Because of a few generous donations of baby clothes from Canada, we were able to give them a bunch of new outfits and some cloth diapers. That night we all celebrated the birth of their son with a big chicken dinner and the next morning we took them back home to Pakak for Junior to meet his two excited big sisters. |
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May 5 , 2007 The other milestone? As we were doing the newborn exam my dad called from Canada for a chat. When it came time to name the baby Magie decided that she would name him after my dad because he called just after her baby was born... (oh, and I suggested it when asked what I thought was a good name...hee hee) So here is a picture of maybe the very first Donald in the village of Lacnog. Isn't he a cutie! Much cuter than his namesake.. Also here is a picture of Donald with Blyn, Magie and Magie's mother.
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April
20, 2007 Again it was late at night when we got the text asking us to go to the village of Lacnog to pick up a woman in labour. As we were grabbing the birth bag to head out the door Achao said to me that he wasn’t sure if we had enough gas to get there and back. He wasn’t sure because like most vehicles around here our gas gauge doesn’t work (nor does the speedometer, temperature gauge, etc.) I told him that we had better try and then see if someone had some extra fuel when we got to the village. (All businesses in Tabuk close at 6pm including gas stations) Half-way there, just before the police checkpoint, our jeep ran out of gas. No fuel at the checkpoint, no other vehicles on the road to help us, no gas stations open… We started to panic…okay I started to panic! We called the only person we knew who might know how to get extra fuel, hoping that he wasn’t fast asleep. Luckily Edwyn was awake and came to our rescue with 22 L of diesel, which was enough to get us there and back. Our hero! We continued on our way and picked up Linda and took her back to the clinic where she delivered a beautiful baby boy. We now fill up our tank every day! |
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April
19, 2007 Now that’s LABOUR! Last week Ramela, age 16, traveled six hours by jeep from her tribal village of Bugnay to deliver at our clinic…WHILE IN LABOUR! She gave birth less than an hour after she arrived. (All that bumping and bobbing around in the dirt mountain roads helped I am sure.) Good thing there was no flat tire, or running out of gas, or getting stuck in the mud. All of these happen quite frequently on the trips to and from the villages in the mountains. I was so excited that she decided to come. It was our first baby from the mountains, but not the last. Conception, pictured here reading a book about labour and delivery, is also from Bugnay and is staying here at our place right awaiting her due date, May 2. |
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March 26, 2007 Late the other evening we got a text from someone in the village of Ileb saying that there was a pregnant woman on her way to our place. Her husband was bringing her on his “kuliglig” (a type of tractor used in ploughing the rice fields – maximum speed? Oh, 5 miles per hour!) Some of the boys from next door came with us for protection (Ileb is situated in a dangerous area) and we hopped in our jeep and headed out to get her. We wanted to go fast but not too fast in case we drove right by them, as they wouldn’t of had any headlights. About half way there we spotted the tractor packed with a group of people and one pregnant lady! We made the exchange at the side of the road, us picking up our pregnant lady and her bags and the tractor heading back home. Once we got home and checked our patient it was obvious that she was in premature labour. We got back in the jeep and took her to the hospital where she delivered a tiny little boy few minutes later. They are both doing well now and the little boy is strong and doesn’t need a ventilator or incubator – it’s a good thing too, because the hospital doesn’t have one! We were sorry we didn’t have baby number 3, but very glad that we were able to help. |
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March 17, 2007 We had been having a tough week at our place. Belen’s sister had been on her way to visit us and got hit by a jeep crossing the road… broken jaw and concussion! Then Achao had a cyst removed from his breast…Youch! Then Elen had to go to the hospital because of a UTI (urinary tract infection) … every sickness here is considered a UTI if the doctors don’t know what it is. We were all exhausted here at the house from the many trips to the hospital, not to mention cooking three meals a day extra for the family members at the hospital. Then Saturday morning we received a text from one of our ladies in a village near by. We had been trying to convince her to deliver here because this was her 7th baby and her last two deliveries had been difficult. We didn’t know if we had been successful in persuading her until we got the text Saturday morning that she was on her way. A few hours after arriving her beautiful baby boy was born! She wanted to go home within 2 hours but we convinced her to stay for at least 4. (She was anxious to get home to her other children and all her work there. I cannot imagine!) Little Ezra Job definitely brightened our difficult week. |
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March
14, 2007 Meet Harry
the Dog |
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Feb
26, 2007 Well, Achao and I arrived back from our one week honeymoon Saturday morning. We had a great time although I think 34 hours spent in buses over a week period is just a little bit much! Our simple wedding service was great. I couldn't believe how relaxed I was the whole time. This is the time that living in community is at its best. I had about thirty people helping me prepare as well as my good friend from Davao who arrived two days before our wedding. We even had time to do some prenatals the day before the wedding and attend Kalinga Day festivities. We met the pastor who married us the day before the wedding and decided we would write our own vows. Achao wrote his in English and I did mine in But But. We stayed up until midnight (that is really late for me!) practicing our vows. The actual wedding day was relaxed as well. I talked to my dad on the phone while getting my hair done and having my toenails painted by friends. Downstairs was a hive of activity of cooking, decorating and setting up. After our simple ring ceremony we had chicken barbeque and pancit. Yum! Out big tribal celebrations will be July 21. In contrast to this simple celebration of 40 + people, July will be three days of dancing, eating and partying with guests in the thousands. Maybe we will have a second honeymoon... but this time, no buses! Our first baby! The day after we arrived home from our honeymoon (we decided to come home two days early), we were all watching a new DVD and Blyn call a call on her cellphone. It was her aunty Salyn and she was in labour! We had been doing prenatals for her over the past few weeks and figured she was due sometime soon but she wasn't sure of her dates. We all jumped out of our seats and into our jeep and took off for her village to pick her up. We were praying the whole time that she wouldn't have the baby before we got there and that everything would go smoothly. We made the 30 minute trip to her village in 15 minutes! She had been labouring all day and was getting frustrated that she hadn't had her baby yet, so she called us. We checked her and decided there was lots of time to take her back to the clinic. So all 8 of us (Salyn and her husband included of course) jumped back in the jeep and headed for the clinic. Two hours later a beautiful baby girl was born! Everything went perfectly and Blyn (an aspiring midwife) was even able to assist with the birth of her little cousin. The next day we took them back to their village and sat out on their porch drinking coffee and chatting. What a great experience! Thank you God. |
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February 17, 2007 It's Official!
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While we are waiting for all of our licensing and paperwork to be finished we have started regular visits to a few of the surrounding villages. Here we are after our prenatal and baby check-ups in the village of Pakak. We have been having a great time connecting with the families in these villages. Many of them are excited about delivering at the clinic when we are finally up and running. It seems like there are a lot of babies due in April so please pray that we have our permits by then! |
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January
21, 2007 Big News and Bigger News Well,
here is the picture of Achao and I and the clinic jeep. It is a big bumpy
old thing but it can go anywhere! We have already driven through a river
in our adventure to get sand to fix our driveway. Because our driveway
is so thin with a huge ditch on either side, every time I attempt to get
to our house everyone in the car yells that I am going in the ditch. |
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January 12,
2007 All Aboard! We officially bought our clinic vehicle this week. It has a seating capacity of 100 ... Hee hee just joking, although I am sure it is entirely possible as you can see in the picture here. This isn't actually our jeep as I don't have a picture yet because it is getting a few repairs before we pick it up. We are one step closer to getting our clinic officially up and running. |
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January
3, 2007 It 'Aint Always Easy Don't
get me wrong, I love Kalinga and feel like this is where I am supposed
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I know this isn't a very "Christmasy" picture but I also wanted to say a BIG thank you to all my supporters who have made it possible for me to be here. We are continuing work on the house, (painting the birth room in this picture) and have even started prenatals! While in Manila this week I will be starting the process for our licensure. In other news, thanks to all of you who contributed, I have raised all the start-up costs! After Christmas I will be buying a clinic vehicle. Yahoo!! (From left to right: Achao, Betty and baby Israel visiting from Bugnay, Elen) |
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December
19, 2006 While visiting in Bugnay (Achao's village) we discovered that baby Owen, who was born three months ago, had not gained any weight. He is still 3.3kg (7 1/2 pounds).After many discussions we convinced Owen's mother to come back with us to Tabuk so that we could help get him healthy again. After a check-up with a private doctor we were told that he was malnourished and anemic....hmm, yes I knew that! So, Owen and his mother will stay in Tabuk at the clinic until he gains some weight and is back on the road to health. In the picture included my mom is giving Owen an extra feeding of formula. For now we are supplementing his mother's breast milk until she is able to produce enough on her own. Please pray for Owen and his mother as well as wisdom for us at the clinic as we care for them. |
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My mom has been here in the Philippines with me for the last two weeks. It has been a busy time so I am sorry for the lack of blog entries! We spent the time fixing up the house, painting, shopping, visiting various villages... and chatting :) Here is a picture of coffee time around the kitchen table of the house/clinic. The three girls on the left are (from closest to mom)Elen, Belen and Blyn and on the right is Zeny who is my friend and midwife who will be working with me! Charlie, Elen's brother, also came for a visit this day. Achao was outside washing laundry. What a great guy. |
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December
06, 2006 I am now officially a Tabuk resident! I have spent the last 3 days moving into the new house, with A LOT of help from my friends. The first day we began cleaning the house - which is quite a large task! After things were a bit more in order, to the market we went. Myself, Elen Dalacnas, Belen Pullis (aspiring midwives) Belen Baluga (a good friend) and Achao (no need for introduction!) went and bought some of the basic necessities for our new house. We are continuing to clean and set things up but as of now, at least the house is live-able. I have heard great news that my midwife friend Zeny is going to come and work with me! It is such an answer to prayer as she is a perfect fit since she was born and raised in Kalinga and has a heart to reach her people. So, pretty soon there will be 7 of us at the house! The more the merrier I say! Oh yes, and at the moment Achao and I are back in Manila to pick up my mom who is spending 2 weeks with us. I will send some more pictures of that very soon. |
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November
27, 2006 I have 3 days left here in Davao! On Friday I did my last pre-natal check-up on my friend Jackie. (She was the one whose wedding I went to when I first arrived here.) It looked to me as though I might not be here for the birth of her baby. We prayed that she would go into labour before I had to leave. Yesterday morning on my regularly scheduled birth shift, who should walk in in labour? An answered prayer! Jackie delivered another beautiful baby girl yesterday morning at 9:20 (a perfectly dignified hour!) weighing 7lbs 6oz. A good size for a Filipino baby! She and her husband George named her Alissah. No babies named after me here in Davao as they think my name is a little "pangit" (ugly). I guess I will have to be happy with the baby Georgias in Kalinga! I took this picture this morning at her one-day post partum check-up. I have only a few minutes to post this message before I head back to the clinic for my next birth shift. The next blog post will most likely be when I am back in Kalinga! Did I already mention it's only another 3 days? :) |
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November
20, 2006 I only have ten days left here in Davao. I can't quite believe it, as six weeks seemed like forever when I first got here. It was so worth it to come here. I have caught 8 babies so far and done loads of pre-natals, baby check-ups and labour watching. I was also given a sewing lesson today by my friend Lynne Jones. She helped me sew little pouches for sterilizing my instruments. It reminded me of my home-ec class, oh let's see... 16 years ago... Ack! Was that really 16 years ago? Aren't I 16 now? While being here I have also had the opportunity to sit in on some presentations by the student midwives who are here. Did you know that breast milk contains over 200 different ingredients? Store-bought baby formula contains approximately 60 ingredients. Is this blog entry kind of a mixture of random thoughts? Well, let me add another then. I attended a conference last week led by my old pastor, Dale Walker, from Las Cruces, New Mexico. Good times... Happy days... Little House on the Prairie! Ok, this is what happens to someone's mind after a night shift. I have included a picture of one of my saner moments at a post-partum check-up of a baby I delivered while being here. |
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November
12, 2006 My mom is coming to see me! On December 6 my mom will fly to the Philippines and help me begin to set up my house/clinic. I just got news today that the water and the power will both be connected in the house by the time she gets here. I am sure my mom will be relieved to hear that. So, the other day I was talking with Achao on the phone and I casually asked if everything was going alright with building beds for the clinic. (After our trip to Manila, Achao returned to his village of Bugnay to work on his farm and start some carpentry for the clinic.) He told me that the wood to make the beds was too expensive so he didn’t buy any. I immediately panicked! "But my mom is coming December 6! We need to have a bed for her at least! Please start building the beds soon!" Patiently Achao explained to me that he was building the beds. It was just that instead of buying the wood planks he was chopping down trees from the forest and making them. Sheepishly I apologized for my little outburst... Don't worry mom. You will have a bed! |
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This last week has been a busy one for me. Not only have I had the chance to deliver 3 babies, I also got my Filipino driver's license and opened a Filipino bank account. I know that it doesn't probably sound like that much for a whole week but for any of you who have lived in a Third World country, you will know that is takes TIME to get anything simple done. For example in order to get my driver's license I had to get a physical exam and a drug test. "Kenny" the helpful man at the LTO (Land Transportation Office, kind of like DMV except much slower!) sent me across the street from his office with a little piece of paper to a shady little building and told me to ask for "Hurley". Um, ok... After "Hurley" took my money, he gave me a little cup and pointed to the back of the shady little building to a shady little toilet area. Why is it that when you really want to "go" quickly you just can't "go"? Argh! Finally I "went" and returned with my little cup which I gave to "Hurley" and was pointed to another shady little room where my physical exam would take place. "Yikes!" I thought. Actually my exam consisted of my blood pressure being taken and being asked if I wear glasses. Then I paid the "medical professional" and was given a clean drug test and physical exam "pass" and sent back across the street to LTO where I continued to wait for most of the day. At least I got it. And in answer to your question; yes, it is the worst picture of me ever taken! |
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October
31, 2006 Two years ago when I was doing my clinical internship at Mercy Maternity Center in Davao, I delivered Jacky's baby Althea. She was a single mom and we prayed together asking God for a husband for her. The other day at the clinic someone found her prenatal chart (she is pregnant again) and saw that I was her midwife for her first baby. So, I surprised her last Friday by coming in and doing her pre-natal check-up. Then she supervised me and gave me a wedding invitation for her wedding the very next day! God answered our prayer and provided a wonderful husband for her. Here is a picture of Jacky and Althea (at left) at the wedding.You may not be able to tell in this picture but Jacky is 8 months pregnant. I am hoping that she will deliver while I am here in Davao so I can be her midwife again! |
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October
28, 2006 I have spent this last week at a "busy" birth center in Davao in order to refresh my skills. Ironically I have worked six days in a row and not one birth! It seems that God has been wanting to teach me something else this week. He has reminded gently, but firmly that this great project I am starting isn't about me ... it's about Him. Although I wouldn't have ever said that what I am doing is about me and my great vision for Kalinga, somehow I was subconsciously thinking that way. I was going to be a great missionary to the tribal women of the Philippines! God's reminder came in the way of a bout of depression and anxiety. "This is impossible!" I thought to myself, "I am going to fail! How did I ever think that I could do this!?". Well, the answer of course is so simple: This isn't about me. I can't do this on my own. My first priority is to love God and the second is to love others and the rest will fall into place as I continue to trust in Him. If all of my plans and visions fail it's okay because as long as I am more in love with Jesus every day, my life is a success."Ahhhh" a sigh of relief. Thank you Lord for your reminder. Now can I maybe deliver a baby this week? ; ) |
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October
18, 2006 The day that I arrived in Kalinga, I heard the tragic news that Hope Jubilee passed away one week before I had arrived. Because of the poverty in which she lived, she had been sick on and off for almost the whole two years of her life. Hope's mother Mary Jane sat down with me and explained to me that this last time, Hope had contracted dysentery and by the time she was able to get her to the hospital it was too late. We cried together and even now as I write this sitting here at a restaurant in Manila on the way to Davao, I am in tears. A few nights after I arrived, Mary Jane asked the church in Pakak to come and pray with her at her house. That night at about 8 pm, the church members gathered outside her house and prayed and worshiped God into the night. Hope is missed by her mother Mary Jane, her sisters Alma and Julianne and the whole village of Pakak. Please pray for comfort and provision for this family. |
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October
1, 2006 I just finished my good-bye birthday party with my family. We had a great time laughing, eating, and listening to my nieces and nephews serenade us with old classics such as "Johnny Appleseed" and "O Canada".
I am now weighing
my bags again to make sure I will be allowed on the plane with all my
presents. My youngest sister Anna-Lisa is helping me balance my huge hockey
bag We decide to get on the scale ourselves.We have now come to the conclusion
that the scale is off by at least 10 lbs. As in we're sure that we are
10 lbs lighter! So now the dilemma; if the scale is weighing correctly
I will not be able to bring all that I have packed and should maybe just
eat the few pounds of chocolate that I got for my birthday before I get
on the plane. However if I am 10 lbs heavier than I thought I was, I shouldn't
be eating that chocolate. The next time you hear from me I will be in the Philippines carrying my huge bags into a village thinking that the scale was probably correct! |
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September
24, 2006 I am returning to
work with the tribal peoples of Kalinga, a remote area in the northern
Philippines. This isolated area plagued with tribal wars is one of the
most beautiful and untouched areas in the Philippines. Because of their
isolation, the people living in this area have little to no access to
medical care. Most of the pregnant women will deliver their babies at
home on their own, without any prior prenatal care or attending doctor
or midwife. Many of these women and babies die due to complications that
would have been easily preventable with adequate care from a qualified
midwife. The estimated monthly running costs of the charity clinic are $2200. The estimated start-up costs are $7000 I am returning to the Philippines October 1, 2006 and after spending 6 weeks working at a charity maternity centre in Davao will move permanently to Tabuk. |
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To actively share the love of God to the tribal people of Kalinga through midwifery and primary health care. My aim is to set up a fully functioning charity maternity centre that will:
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Monthly Running Costs $ 1650 1
Midwife Salary $250 Monthly Family Salary $600 Includes
the following: Total Monthly Budget for Clinic and Macad Family - $2,250 Total Regular Monthly Giving as of July 2008 - $850 We currently have a grant from Samaritan’s Purse, which provides $1000 per month until December 2008 and then $800 per month until December 2009. Amount
Still to be Raised until December 2008 - $400 per month Please
join our team of supporters by giving monthly $25, $50 $100 or any amount
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If you want to support me by contributing financially, we are now accepting donations through PayPal. Click the icon above! Paypal is one of the easiest and most trusted ways to send and receive money online. Just click the paypal logo and you will be redirected to the website. You can sign up for an account and use paypal to pay directly from your PayPal balance or linked bank account, or charge it to your credit card. All you have to do is choose my account name "gthemidwife@yahoo.com" and at the press of a button the money will go directly to the clinic! Sorry, no tax-deductible receipts available through paypal, however every penny will go towards the work here in Kalinga.
In Canada: THANK YOU SO MUCH! |
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| I have been a part of Upstream
Christian Initiatives for many years, including a five-year cross Canada
mission. Canadian donations are being handled by Upstream My home church in Canada
is the Abbotsford Vineyard.My three sisters and their families are also
there! My mother runs a Christian
Retreat Centre in Oklahoma. Her church, First Love Christian Fellowship,
is handling American donations. Visit me on Facebook and join our Facebook Group "Abundant Grace of God Maternity Centre" |
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