I am not
really sure how to start this story.......
This
trip and the circumstances leading up to it are very personal to me, and
the words to tell it and to tell the people involved how much this all
meant to me at this
time
in my life, has been difficult to put down on paper. Words are sometimes
not enough it seems.
Here
I go........
Those of
you who know me, know that my beautiful wife, Sue, of 30+ years passed
away from cancer in May 2009. She was one in a million. Always positive
and always thought of everyone else before herself. Life threw many
many challenges her way but she never, or rarely faltered, in her positive
outlook on life and the good she always found in people.
Life
with Sue was always interesting to say the least. In our 30 years of marriage
she taught me to always laugh and to always realize that no matter how
bad things may appear, in the big picture, we were so fortunate.
To realize that there are so many more people that are worse off. Also
to understand that everyone has shit in their lives and that you have to
accept the challenges head on and understand that there are things
you can change... and things you can't. Don't sweat the things you can't
change, accept them and just do the best you can. This I learned
from Sue.
Sue
knew challenges. Diagnosed at 8 years of age with diabetes. Even at 8 years
old she took the shots and the tests and did what had to be done with a
smile.
When
I met Sue I knew she was special. Her innocence and goodness overwhelmed
me. Literally after our first date I had told my best friend the next day
that last night I had gone out with the girl I was going to marry. And
I did!
When
we decided to have children we weighed the risks to her being a diabetic,
but she had always been very well controlled and the doctors thought it
would be fine. More than anything we also wanted to have children. It was
fine, we have a beautiful daughter, Jamie, who is just like her Mother
....in so many ways. But, we were challenged during the pregnancy
and about 3 months into it Sues sight started to deteriorate rapidly. The
vessels were haemorrhaging in her eyes and even after laser treatments
of over 6000 shots in each eye they could not stop the progress. Even a
last minute surgery did not work. By the time our daughter was born Sue
had lost all sight. Was it a challenge? You bet. Did it change her ....
not a chance. Nothing stopped her... ever.
She
remained completely blind for about 2 years. Two years which we learned
and grew in maybe a bit different way from most..... but we were always
together and always laughing. I could honestly tell you a hundred stories
of little issues we had during that period that would have you in tears
of laughter.... no matter what... we laughed a lot. She always made it
so easy.
After about 2 years without any sight a portion of it returned in her left
eye. Not a lot, about 15 %, but enough that she could finally see the beautiful
blue eyes of our daughter and with that, potential for more.
Sue had a lot to do with my web site and encouraged all the trips and also
the time it takes to run it.
A
lot of the articles that you see on my site which were typed up, were all
done by Sue. She would sit for hours with a magnifying glass and read the
review or interview line by line, and then type each one. An amazing woman
to say the least. She was always so supportive of what I was trying to
do and she wanted to be involved. When I did my trips our friends
would always ask her why she didn't want to go and she said "because this
is Steve's time," his love, his, hobby and she felt I deserved it.
Always pushing me to enjoy the opportunities that came about.
Anyway,
with all the challenges that came our way, one came up that we knew we
couldn't win completely. Ten plus years ago it started when, after a routine
check up she was diagnosed with breast cancer. She went through all
the treatments and operations and after a year went into remission and
was clear of it for seven years.
Well
about four years ago it came back, only differently. Those of you who have
had to deal with this (and there are far too many of you ) you learn that
cancer has a way of adapting and changing. What Sue was diagnosed with
was metastasized breast cancer. What this means is that the breast cancer
returned but returned in other parts of her body. In Sues case it was in
her bones. You go through the plan of attack with the doctors but
right at the beginning, our first visit with the oncologist , Sue said
to him, " I don't want to hear anything about longevity or statistics.
Just tell me what I have to do and then we will go from there." The doctor
was ok with that and so was I, but when he was discussing the plans he
had said one line that stuck with me.... this type of cancer is treatable....
not curable.
I
can't describe the thoughts that go through your mind when you hear stuff
like that but it's almost like stepping out of your body for a moment and
looking at what is going on at a distance.
We went through a lot of stuff over the last few years, including three
very serious situations when you're sitting in an emergency ward and your
asked to sign do not resuscitate papers. But through all of it, Sue was
always positive, always trying to be the best she could be. After
a while though I knew she was aware of what was going to happen sooner
than later. Sure we had "those" talks. The "what will you do and
what if" conversations about life and death. About our daughter, about
what Sue was likely not to experience with her. Again though, not in a
negative way, just in an accepting way. Don't worry about the things you
can't change attitude. It was amazing to experience all of the moments,
good and bad and watch as she fought and then accepted the inevitable with
such strength and resolve.
All
in all, we would have said that considering the circumstances, she did
amazingly well over the three or four years. About 90% of that time she
was in bed but last year we managed to get her down to our cottage. She
had a good time there. We were very lucky. We knew it could have been much
worse.
The
change came at the beginning of April when it was starting to become apparent
that things were starting to progress inside her. Her chemo treatments
had finished a couple of months before that as you can only take it for
so long. Different things were being done but you know that they are not
going to be enough. Sue was on morphine for a long time and in May went
through another emergency hospital trip as one of the things that can happen
is amnesia if you get too much. Morphine has a way of sometimes building
up in you (the body doesn't process the dose completely) and at times can
all of a sudden absorb and you get larger amounts than you anticipated.
One
thing I have learned also is too challenge doctors sometimes. While I have
the highest regard for Doctors, and we had so many many great caring people
looking after her, they are not perfect either.
During
this hospital trip, I gave them all the symptoms, and because of previous
experiences directed them to check certain things that we had seen before.
This was great, they went at it, did all the tests and everything came
back normal. These results then led to the direction of the amount of morphine
she had in her. The doctor came in and said that everything was ok and
so he asked Sue how she was. Sue, of course said "Fine". I looked at doctor
and then looked at her and said "Do you know where you are?" She looked
around for a good 20 seconds and then looked at me and said with a grin
"No I don't". I looked back at the doctor who was surprised, then looked
back at Sue and said "What's my name? " She looked me straight in the eyes
for a few seconds and then smiled and said " I don't know." I looked at
the doctor and said, "guess a few more tests are in order". He agreed.
The
other thing that I have conveyed to friends is that IF, and I would wish
no one had to go through what we did, but IF you find yourself in a similar
situation where you know it's coming, read up and understand what happens
to someone during the process of passing away.
In
one of our many discussions Sue always made it clear to me that she wanted
to be at home when the time came. I promised her that would happen.
I
was very involved in her medications and because of my experiences with
diabetes and needles etc., it had given me a good understanding of pain
medications and how they work and how they are supposed to work.
So when the end drew near the doctors gave me their support in being able
to handle the situation.
There
are steps that people experience when the time is getting closer and both
my daughter and myself read everything we could about what these steps
are and what they meant, and what to expect near the end. When they
start, the process can take a few days.
The
first sign is stopping eating solid foods... lack of appetite. You
can live for a number of days without food but you now know that things
are starting when this occurs.
The
next step, and the more serious, is stopping fluids. When you can't or
stop requiring this, it means the body is starting to shut down. You can
go a couple of days without fluids but not too many.
The
next step we prepared for was that the person will lose consciousness.
In our case when it happened it was the Thursday morning. We had gone through
the first two early in the week, and believe me you can do a lot of talking
as Sue already knew what was going on inside her. Everything that was said
was just a repeat of the thousands of times we had said them during our
30 years and obviously even more the last three years. Thursday morning
we could not wake her.
This is where I say why it's important to know what is going on. Thursday
morning both Jamie and myself did not panic or stress about this bizarre
situation we had unfolding. We knew it, expected it and therefore were
remarkably matter of fact about it with each other.
I
called our doctors and informed them of where we were and they repeated
to me what to watch for and expect.
My
only concern was that I understood that even though a person was unconscious
they could still experience pain. Sue on her regulated dose of morphine
now could no longer take her pills. I asked the doctors if I could get
injectable doses. Seeing that I had given literally thousands of needles
to Sue over the years this was very doable. A few calls and I was picking
up the doses at the University Hospital here.
We
went through Thursday and Friday just spending a lot of time in her room
talking and just being in the same room felt comforting to both Jamie and
myself.
Saturday
Sues breathing was becoming more shallow. I went out and came back
with numerous candles (Sue loved lavender) and filled the bedroom with
flowers. The stereo in the room never stopped playing all of her favourite
songs. I had learned that even unconscious people are able to hear
and smell.
We
had an amazing day. Just the three of us, sorry the five of us (our two
dogs were beside Sue) Jamie and I talked and laughed, cried, and laughed
some more. Both though were very relaxed, making the most of the situation.
About
10:00 Sat night Jamie wanted to go out for a bit with some friends. I encouraged
it as she needed her time outside this incredible thing she was going through.
After she left I went upstairs and laid on the bed with Sue, my arm around
her and just sat together and enjoyed the music.
The
final step that happens is that as the time draws close it is not unusual
for a person to stop breathing for a few seconds and then all of a sudden
start up again. this was the one thing that I was so glad to have been
educated on. It also means that it is very close to the time.
As
we were lying there together very close, my arm around her, listening to
James Taylor, her shallow breath stopped. I turned to look at her, not
in fear, it was the realization that we were there. After a few seconds
she drew a breath in. I talked to her, and told her how much I loved her,
and that it was, ok to go. After a few minutes she stopped again. Then
started up again. I just kept talking to her. About five minutes
later her breathing stopped and I knew this was it. It was incredibly calming.
I
held her for a few more minutes and then checked her again but I already
knew.
I tell you this story because Sue was my strength and without her I would
have never got to know all the wonderful people I have met over the last
few years including the guys in the band. My musical heroes. She
always pushed me to go that step further and reach out. When I would
be with the guys or on the phone with them Sue always said to me
that she was too shy to talk to them but over the last few years I would
come home and ask her what she had done that afternoon while I was working
and she would say " oh I spent 2 hours on the phone with Andrea," Robins
wife and good friend. I knew they had good talks about things and
life and beliefs. Those conversations always made her feel a part of it
and Andrea was always so encouraging for her.
As I have said before I have become good friends with the band over the
years and when Sue passed away I had numerous calls from the guys just
checking up to see how I was doing. Jamie and I had decided to have
the funeral in Winnipeg as that is really our hometown. It was a very upbeat
funeral, lots of music. I had also planned to head to our cottage
after the funeral with a couple of friends just to unwind from all the
stress of the funeral.
When I
got back home there was an email from Derek who had been in touch with
me just after Sue's passing. It read :
Steve
I hope you are home and able
to breathe again
We would like to invite you
-- as our guest -- to
come to any of the shows on
this tour. You choose.
I will arrange travel and hotels
etc.
Robin's whole team would like
to believe that music
can give some relief from grief,
and help with healing.
Are you OK to join us somewhere
along the trail?
Derek
At
the moment I read that I honestly was speechless. I do stay in touch with
Derek. He has been very generous in allowing me to get involved in
things going on like the re-release of
Bridge Of Sighs which lead to assisting the track listing on
the latest compilation "best of" Day
Of The Eagle. to which I was elated to be a small part of.
I called Derek and even admitted that I was speechless and honestly very
choked up about it. This came soon after Sue passed and the guys were touring
the west coast. Because of personal things going on the timing was
just not going to work for me to hit the west coast shows. Derek was so
cool and just said "pick anytime".
Here
is where I get deeper if you will permit me.
As
I have said before, my relationships with Robin and the guys ( ya I always
refer to them as the guys because I am too lazy to type all the names)
are great. If you have read the England Tour story you know that, while
a very very private person our families are friends. I have been a friend
of Davey's for a long long time and Pete's for almost as long. Bronzie
is right there too. Laurie and Steveo. I love these guys. While I have
known Glenn the shortest time and had never met prior to this, we had talked
on the phone a few times and we do know each other.
Right
after Sue passed away the guys were in constant communication to
see how I was doing. I am saying this because this goes beyond the "fan"
thing. We are friends. Always will be a fan, but the last few years of
knowing these guys the way I do, I do honestly find it amusing how we can
be sitting in a pub one time talking trash with each other and then me
being on the side of a stage watching them perform and more importantly,
watching what they give out and how people react. It is an amazing contradiction
in your mind as, even after all this time, I see these guys live and I
still get blown away by how talented each one of them is. As a guitarist,
Robin is just so good it still blows me away on how he plays.
I was touched very deeply by the offer. Again, there are really no words
that would convey the way this touched me. The experience I am going through
is life changing to say the least, and this was honestly the first thing
that showed me something positive and honestly helped me deal with
all the other things that were going on.
Sue
would have been the first to say to go and I really felt I was going to
do this for her as much as myself.
It's been nine months now. Not many moments go by without me thinking about
her but I do know she would have been happy that so many friends were looking
out for me. Those of you who I have become a bit closer too, I cannot thank
you enough for your support and friendship.
As Sue
would say to me " Life is a gift ... enjoy every moment"!
I
will.
.............................
Sue and I on
stage a few years ago doing "Messin The Blues............. my girl
thanks for
listening......it helped to write it down
so here
we go.....the trip....

After
a few discussions with Derek about which show would be the most advantageous
for me to actually get to visit with the guys Atlantic City was the obvious
choice. The band would be in town a couple of days prior to the show, lots
of time to visit and then catch a show.
One
of the things Derek had said to me was that if I went then I could got
to the rehearsal. This was different. I have been very privileged to be
able to go to sound checks on numerous occasions but the rehearsal... that
would be very different.
After
a few days of thinking about that I mentioned to Derek that while I would
love to go to the rehearsals, being a guitarist I would completely understand
if this was a time that Robin felt the guys needed to be "just the band".
I completely get that and honestly if I was in the same position I would
be hesitant to have someone watch those moments working out the songs or
getting a bit of a refresher of how they are going to play each one.
Would
play this one by ear :o)
THE TRIP
TO ATLANTIC CITY

My
flight left Saskatoon for Chicago on the Wednesday and my tickets etc.
had arrived and everything was packed and ready to go.
I
was booked to go to Chicago, connect with a flight out of Chicago an hour
and a half later to Philly. Got to Chicago right on time and I though,
great, I will beeze through customs, hit the next flight and all would
be well. In the interim I had been texting Davey and Pete and we were going
to meet in the bar around 10:oo which was when I should be arriving in
Atlantic City.
I
got off the plane and started to go to the customs area and as I turned
the corner into that area I saw about a thousand people standing in line
to go through the five custom agent lines.!!! I am thinking oh there
must be a faster line for those with connections... guess what... nope!
I
got into line and after an hour I knew I was going to miss my flight...
and I did. Damn!
I finally
got through customs after about 2 hours and went to rebook. No problem,,,,
wrong, I got a flight, but it was a couple hours later. So I text the guys
and they are still going hey no problem we will wait. Great.
The
flight was late again leaving, and now I wasn't going to get there till
about 2 or 3 in the morning. I let the guys off the hook and said
I would catch them in the morning. :o)
Finally got into Philly and there was a limo waiting for me to go to Atlantic
City which is about an hour and a half away. The limo was my treat
to myself. Derek wanted to cover everything and I originally had
arrangements for a ride but as the time drew closer my ride fell through
and as the band had been so gracious with everything I just thought I would
continue my trip in style. It was a great ride and I relaxed in the
back and enjoyed the ride in comfort!
......
The front entrance
to the showboat and the view from the boardwalk
 
Arrived
at the hotel at about 3:00 a.m. and walked in to the sound of slot machines
and music. The place was jumping. I went up to the desk and gave my name
and the Lady said "Oh you made it,, your the last of the band!" (
my ego burst for just a second just to be mentioned that way :o) Laurie
had mentioned to them at the front that I would be arriving late and to
make sure all was ok. What a guy!
She
then handed me the room log showing all the guys listed and in there was
my name. I kept that for sure :o)
I
went up to my room, 17th floor, overlooking the boardwalk and ocean. Amazing
view.
While I was tired I was still very pumped up at being there and so decided
I needed to go down and have a drink in the bar just to relax and check
things out. What a place!
I have never been in a large casino before and so I went and had a drink
and then walked around for a bit just to watch all the goings on.
after a while though I headed to room, relaxed and was thinking about how
much fun the next couple of days are going to be.
Billboard ...
thanks to Michael Gladstone for these shots
on
the boardwalk
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THURSDAY
SEPT. 10 REHEARSAL DAY
I
woke early and thought I would go downstairs to get something to eat. Even
though I only got a few hours sleep I was very pumped about seeing the
guys. I found a nice place in the casino and had a quick breakfast and
then thought I would go back and wake Davey and Pete up at least.
On
my way back to the elevators as I passed one of the lounges who do I see
but
Davey and
Pete talking to road manager and sound man extraordinaire
..........................................................
Laurie Brace
and ....
guitar tech Paul Bullimore
As I was
walking over they saw me and lots of hugs all around. I was introduced
to Paul as we had never met, and we sat down to chat for a while.
It is always good to see these guys and just hang around.
Laurie
hung around for a while but then had to take off to get things in order
for the day and so the rest of us sat around to catch up.
As we were
there, Michael Gladstone,
who works with the band driving and helping out showed up. Michael
and I have known each other for a while and have had some great chats on
the phone. Always great to meet people you know but have never met.
As we were talking I was still really wondering about going to the rehearsal.
Prior to coming out even the guys in the band wondered if that would be
ok with Robin. I kept saying to them that while I would like to go I did
understand if Robin wanted it to be closed. As I said, rehearsals are very
private things and so even if I didn't get to go we would hook up after.
I was definitely not going to be disappointed not going. Completely understandable
and to be quite honest I wouldn't want anyone else around while getting
ready for a tour if it was me playing. Even Pete and Davey were surprised
that I may be coming.
It
was so good to be sitting with Davey and Pete. Two close friends whom I
hadn't seen in a long time. Lots of laughs and typical buddy BS! Definite
characters!
Laurie
came back and Davey asked if I was going to come along. Laurie said 'oh
for sure, just talked to Robin and he is expecting you to be there."
Glenn and Laurie were going down to the studio a bit earlier and then Michael
would come back and pick up Davey, Pete and me and bring us down. Needless
to say I was pumped for this.
We
hung out for a while and then eventually went outside where Michael was
waiting for us. Nice drive out and finally arrived at this studio
where Robin was already in warming up.
Before
I went in I met Dave Walker
who is the merch person. On a side note, this shot was taken during
one of three trips he took to dive to the Titanic!! Seriously!
Met a few people from the studio before walking into the rehearsal room
where Robin was playing. I think I surprised him as I went up and
gave him a big hug! It was good to see him again and
we chatted a bit while everyone else was getting set up.
Now
you have to picture this very small room, full equipment set up and a single
stool at the front to sit on. Literally ten feet in front of the band.
A few warm up riffs and it's time to get started. All I can convey here
is that I was in shock. Funny thing is, when I find myself in these situations
I always try to be so nonchalant and try to just be one of the guys but
it truth .... I am still as nervous as a kid. It's quite amusing.
I
really wasn't sure what to expect and what I got was literally the whole
show performed right in front of me. It was so cool really, I can't describe
it. A few songs, a bit of talk, then a break. Out side to chat for a few
minutes then back at it. It was just amazing. During the breaks we
talked family, another time I was in the room with Robin going through
his Fulltone effects board and talking about the set ups and how he uses
them. It was casual and a lot of fun just to talk shop like that. The whole
crew was there also but no one came in during the playing. Laurie, Dave,
Paul and Michael do a great job keeping everything in order.
I
took only a few pictures as I did want to capture the moment, but to be
honest, it was just such an amazing experience to just be there that I
didn't really think about it. I truly was just so honoured to be
there that I wanted to remain as quiet as possible. I even asked Robin
if it was ok before I took out the camera!
The
rehearsal
Robin, relaxed
and warming up
.....
Pete Davey and
Glenn setting up
After
the rehearsals I asked the band to sign
my
Stratocaster pick guard
Robins
Guitar

I
have to be honest and admit that after the rehearsals were over and Robin
had left to go back to the hotel, I went in to take this shot and just
could not resist picking it up and playing a few licks. I had too!
Sorry Robin.
Thanks to everyone for sharing this special moment with me.
We hung around for a bit and then we headed back to the hotel for some
relaxation and eventually went for something to eat with Paul, Davey, Pete
and Laurie. Glenn and Robin decided on a movie.
Later it was sitting around talking and just having a good time.
Pete
has been working on some solo stuff and we went upstairs for a time to
have a listen on his laptop. Some great stuff. Pete has a good voice and
I really enjoyed the tracks. I look forward to hearing more if his music.
(since
I have been painfully slow at getting this finished I have heard a few
more tracks from Pete and he's got some good tracks down)
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FRIDAY
SEPT. 11, SOUNDCHECK
Woke up to my phone ringing and Pete on the other end saying "Lets go for
breakfast"!
I
got up and ready and went down to Petes room, which was just down the hall,
to go downstairs and eat. Since it was fairly early I text Davey to say
if he was up to meet us.
One other bonus coming to Atlantic City was that my good friend and former
London England travelling companion, Neil Calandra, was going to meet up
with me today, driving in from New York. Haven't seen Neil since my first
trip to England in 2005 so we were really looking forward to experiencing
another Trower weekend. Also another very good friend, Lisa, who I met
through the site and because of circumstances we were going through became
someone very important to me and a real good friend. She and her
husband Jimmy were also coming to the show and we had made plans to hook
up later that afternoon.
So back at the restaurant Pete and I were there when Neil text to say he
had arrived. I told him where we were and pretty soon Neil came in, loaded
with all his camera stuff, and it was great to see him again. We sat around
and talked for a while and then Pete wanted to go back and check in with
the Mrs. (She has to keep close tabs on him for some reason hahaha
(Ang... just having fun with that).
Neil
and I decided we would take a walk around and check out the boardwalk.
It was really cloudy and windy but we walked down a ways and hit one of
the other casinos just to see what it was like. Took a few pix and then
went back in to pick up some stuff from the HOB store for the family.
As
we were walking around and checking out the venue there was a poster of
Robin on display ( the top one here) and he tells me that it was his (Neil's)
picture they were using. He really wanted to get a copy of it so off we
went trying to find someone that could direct us to someone who would give
us a couple. No luck.
We
toured around a bit more went outside and walked the boardwalk for a bit.
As
time went on we thought we better get back to the hotel and into the HOB
so we could catch the set up and sound check.
We
walked into the hall and everyone was busy doing their thing to ensure
perfection for the show.
Laurie
and Paul getting every single piece in its correct spot.
....
Laurie
at the board making it all sound so right for the fans
.............. ......
Pete
getting ready to do his sound while Paul makes some last minute adjustments.
Everything
has to be perfect
................ ...........
Dave
gets the merch ready for the night while Paul gets Robins guitar ready
to fly
Robins
set up


............
....
..............................
Always fun for me watch the set up and sound check. It is when you get
to see the loose side of this band. They are so tight during the show but
at sound checks, every once in a while you will hear someone doing something
during a break or when Robin is starting to warm up. Just playing
whatever. Love it.
One
of the other things I have always done while the sound checks are going
on is to talk to the security people. Even though you have a pass it is
always good to let them know who you are and why you may be walking around
with a video camera! Robin has never had a problem with me videoing
sound checks and rehearsals because he knows they are for me only. I walked
up to a couple of them and talked for a bit and then mentioned that Neil
and I will be walking around with recording stuff and they had already
been told that it was fine. Just a side story I mostly just watched the
show and maybe recorded half of it by leaving my camera running on the
sound board. Once or twice during the show though I walked up to the stage
to get a different angle. So I am standing there with my camera held up
and the person just in front of me pulls out a camera and the security
people were there right away. I felt a bit guilty so I went backstage and
took a bit more from there. :o)
So
back to the sound check. While the sound was being done, my friend Lisa
text me to say they had arrived. I told Neil I was taking off for
a bit but would be back. I hadn't got my pass yet so Neil had a photo
one so I put that on and walked out to meet my friends.
We
hooked up by the HOB entrance and then went down to the bar to have a drink.
Always really cool meeting people you have interacted with through the
internet but have never meet.
Here
is one of the fun things about being "with the band". During the
day and previous night we had all spent time sitting and talking in one
of the lounges. Great times and lots of fun but all the people that were
working the place knew that these guys were the band. Normal thing in this
establishment was that you went up to the bar to get whatever and then
found a seat. With the guys in the band they always came over and served
us. So when Lisa, Jimmy and I went into the bar to have a drink, we sat
down first. Very quickly the bartender came over, asked us what we wanted
then proceeded to go get them and bring them to the table. When I started
to pull out my money he looked at me and said , "no problem" and walked
away. He had remembered me with the guys and so everything was taken care
of. I love that!
Had
a great visit with Lisa and they were going to go get settled and I wanted
to get back to the venue.
As
I was walking back there was already a line up but luckily the guy at the
door was one of the guys I had talked to earlier and he waved me up and
in.
Pre
Show
Remember
the posters I was mentioning earlier that we were trying to find?
Well I
had mentioned it to Michael Gladstone and,well he walks up to me
and hands me one, I went great then said that I would have to give it to
Neil but Michael had picked up two and he had already seen Neil and
so we were both extremely grateful.
Very cool
move Michael!
Everything
was now done and ready to fly. We were all hanging around backstage and
Laurie figured we should get something to eat so dinner was ordered to
come to the dressing rooms where we were sitting around talking.
Pretty
soon the place started to fill up and so I went out to find Lisa and set
my camera up at the sound board.
Ran
into one of the guys from the rehearsal studio and a couple of people who
knew me from the site. That's always a really strange thing when a stranger
walks up to you and asks if I am Steve, the guy with the site :o).
So
show time is getting close and so went backstage to see the guys before
they went out. Glenn was showing me his bass guitar which he makes, I played
it a second but I am a guitar player not a bass player so I probably embarrassed
myself playing it. Nice guitar though and when I get his interview up will
learn more about these guitars and how they came about.
before show
time
Glenn,
Davey, me, Pete, Laurie and Paul
Just
before the show we were gathered backstage ....
Robin,
as always, is in his dressing room getting ready for the show.
THE
SHOW
I was starting
to put captions on these photos but after reviewing them
I think
they pretty much speak for themselves.... the show was amazing, the band
was on and the place was rockin.
Neil, as
always, thanks for the great pictures





After
the show the venue started to clear out or not surprisingly started to
form a line in front of the merch table where Robin was going to be to
sign a few things.
This
is one thing that Robin almost always does, meets the fans afterwards.
I can tell you that he literally signs until I am sure his hand gets tired.
I
always find this amazing to watch as most of us, myself included, act like
kids when we are given this opportunity to say hello to someone who has
touched us through his music.
Robin
is out there for about 15-20 minutes getting everyone's article signed
and always with a smile. Don't ever stop doing this as it means so much
to each person.
I
went backstage again and talked to the guys. Robin came back and we talked
for a minute then he was heading back to the room.
We
were all going to meet back at the lounge after the show. I went out to
see Lisa again and to invite her to join us.
By
the time we got there Pete and Davey were already there waiting. Surrounded
by a bunch of people who had been at the show who were wanting to show
their appreciation for the great show.
After
a while the crowds thinned and we were all just sitting around having a
good time.
I
had already decided that I would be pulling an all nighter as I had to
get back to Philly airport early and so I had booked the limo to pick me
up at 3:00 a.m.
By
about one the guys including Neil were pretty tired and so we said our
goodbyes.
Lisa decided
she would hang out with me till the limo arrived and so at 3 I went outside
and it was waiting for me. Crawled in the back and just relaxed to enjoy
the ride.
Getting
back home was a story in itself, Fogged in airports, flights cancelled
etc. etc. but I finally made it home about 6:00pm. When I got to
the Saskatoon airport my phone rang and it was Pete asking if I really
did stay up all night. They wanted to see if I had got home in one piece.
Another
great experience that I will remember forever.
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