
Who are Bigs?
Who are Littles?
What do Bigs and Littles do together?
I don't have a lot of money or time – can I still be a Big?
What's involved in becoming a Big?
How does a child become a Little?
How are Bigs and Littles matched?
I've heard children in the program are usually "troubled"
kids – is that true?
Are there group activities as part of the program?
Once a match is made, what kind of support is there for
Bigs?
How long do matches last?
Q: Who
are "Bigs"?
Are Big Brothers, Big Sisters and Big Couples are carefully screened men
and women over the age of 19. They come from all walks of life, but
share a common willingness to help improve the life of a child by
volunteering 3-5 hours a week. Bigs are not professional counselors and
they aren't surrogate parents. They are responsible people from the
community willing to provide one-to-one friendship with kids who could
benefit from another positive role model in their lives.
Q: Who
are "Littles"?
Little Brothers and Sisters are
children between the ages of 6 and 16. Littles normally come from
single-parent homes, and benefit from the addition of a positive male or
female role model in their lives.
Q: What
do Bigs and Littles do together?
They go to a movie, do crafts,
play sports, talk – whatever they enjoy doing. Bigs and Littles meet for
3-5 hours a week and just spend time together one-on-one as friends.
Q: I don't
have a lot of money or time – can I still be a Big?
Sure! Being a Big involves 3-5 hours
a week, usually on the same day, with a minimum one-year commitment.
There is no cost to the Big or the Little to take part in the program,
and we encourage our Bigs to keep spending to a minimum. Many local
businesses provide free or discount activity opportunities for Bigs and
Littles.
Q: What's
involved in becoming a Big?
For the protection of both our
Bigs and our Littles, we carefully screen applicants for all our Big
programs. Police record checks are conducted, followed by personal
interviews, reference checks and a training and safety program to make
sure the Big is suitable and prepared for the program.
Q: How
does a child become a Little?
Littles are usually referred to
the program by parents or, sometimes, schools or social service
agencies. A caseworker interviews the parent, the child and the child's
schoolteacher to ensure the child is willing and suitable for the
program. Once a child is accepted as a Little, they are placed on a
waitlist until the perfect Big is available for a match.
Q: How are
Bigs and Littles matched?
A caseworker interviews the Bigs
and Littles to get to know them, their interests and their
personalities. Bigs meet their prospective child's parent first, to
ensure the parent is comfortable with the prospective match. If they
agree to proceed, then the Big meets the Little with their parent and,
hopefully, a friendship begins.
Q: I've
heard children in the program are usually "troubled kids" – is that
true?
On the contrary, children with
serious physical, emotional or psychological issues are not accepted as
Littles. Matching children who face these kinds of challenges with Bigs
who aren't trained to help them simply wouldn't be fair to the child or
the adult.
Our focus is to provide children with a
positive opportunity to spend quality time with a friend and role model.
If issues do arise in a match, caseworkers are always available and
processes are in place to help Bigs and Littles deal with them.
Q: Are
there group activities as part of the program?
The focus of the program is
one-on-one time between the Big and their Little, but we do have several
group activities throughout the year. We also often invite children on
the waitlist, and their parents, to our events. Movie nights, summer
picnics, bowling, and our annual Valentines Day Potluck are just some of
the group activities we all enjoy together.
Q: Once
a match is made, what kind of support is there for Bigs?
Our caseworkers are always
available to help Bigs and Littles if problems arise in the match. We
also check in on a regular basis with both the Big and the Little to
make sure things are going well.
Q: How
long do matches last?
Bigs commit to volunteer for one
year. At the end of the year, it's up to the Big and the Little if they
want the match to continue. Many matches continue on for years,
developing into lasting friendships even after the Little outgrows the
program.
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